So you have a fight with your mum/dad or your sis/bro
You're so freakin annoyed, you feel like punching ur bro in the face.
You feel like exploding, You can't stand them anymore
You wanna move out of the house.
You don't wanna think of them as family anymore
But HEY !!
It will pass !! Trust me, it will.
Get a diversion, cool off, calm down
Do something positive, Exercise or Go take a walk, whatever
Before you know it, you forgot the reason you fought with them in the first place.
Before you even realize it, you start talking to them again and start laughing about everything again.
Just think about the warm fuzzy feeling you get when you spend good times with them, don't you wanna have that instead of feeling miserable ?
Think about how protected and safe you are when they got your back.
So why choose to feel miserable ?
There's no "I win" if you give them the silent treatment
There's no "I lose" if you start talking to them first.
You guys need each other, even though sometimes you don't admit it, You do need them.
They're Family
It's all that matters
You fight with them, you argue with them
but you'll always be there for each other no matter what
They'll always be there for you.
Here,
Just imagine if it's the end of the world.
You only have 10 minutes before everything comes to an end.
You know what....
You won't even think of all the annoying stuff that they did
You'll see only good things in them
You forgive all,
You'd wanna spend the last minutes with them.
You'll feel warm and light inside
You'll want more time to spend time with them
and Why wait till it's too late ?
You have them now right in front of you
It's your choice
Monday, August 31, 2009
What to do when I am upset
First of all
That feeling won't stay forever.
I know you're upset now, but just know you're not gonna feel upset or angry forever.
That's the first thing to remember.
Then, this is what works for me
I go to my room to cool off
Watch some good TV or a movie, comedy perhaps.
accompanied with some good food
(just don't make snacking as a solution for your problem)
Eat Fruits instead ;p
After 30 mins or so,
I'm all better.
Really, no matter how upset/angry I felt earlier, I'm now calm and happier.
Give it a few more hours and I start to think straight
and I see how unnecessary it was to be upset in the first place.
I learn if I could just let it go, I didn't have to feel upset at all.
I could just let go and move on and be happy.
That feeling won't stay forever.
I know you're upset now, but just know you're not gonna feel upset or angry forever.
That's the first thing to remember.
Then, this is what works for me
I go to my room to cool off
Watch some good TV or a movie, comedy perhaps.
accompanied with some good food
(just don't make snacking as a solution for your problem)
Eat Fruits instead ;p
After 30 mins or so,
I'm all better.
Really, no matter how upset/angry I felt earlier, I'm now calm and happier.
Give it a few more hours and I start to think straight
and I see how unnecessary it was to be upset in the first place.
I learn if I could just let it go, I didn't have to feel upset at all.
I could just let go and move on and be happy.
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
What to do when I can't control my anger
I am so mad,
They don't even realize their mistakes.
They are so fake and pretentious.
They won't admit their mistakes.
They lied to me.
Their fault is unforgivable
So what do you do ?
You can't control yourself.
You are angry at them.
You are angry at yourself for not able to solve the problem.
What to do if I can't stop being angry ?
it's the same as :
What to do when I refuse to Let go ?
What to do when I refuse to Forget and Forgive ?
It's a choice.
You have to make a choice.
and It's totally your choice.
Do you want to stay angry ?
Do you want to be sick ?
Yes... anger and grudge and stress and sadness makes you SICK !!!
It's not a myth, it's a Reality.
It's also true that laughter and happiness and letting go and forgiveness HEALS !!
So the choice is up to you !!
It's entirely your decision to make.
They probably won't stop making their mistakes.
They probably will stay the bad guys forever.
But it's not your problem.
It's their problem.
What you need to do is to not allow them disturb you.
What happened is already in the past.
You are still angry for what happened in the past.
Live in the Now,
Let go, Forget, Forgive and Be sincerely Happy with your Present Life and Move towards your Future.
"But I'm not that guy who takes things lightly and forgets.
I'm not him who smiles at the person who has robbed him of everything."
You wanna know what the truth is ?
It's hard for him too !! But he chose to Let go, to Forgive and to Move on.
He chose to have a good happy Life.
It's the same choice for you.
and the Good News is , It's entirely your choice.
No one will take over and decide for you.
Choose to Let go,
Choose to be Healthy,
Choose to Forgive,
Choose to Move on.
Choose to be Happy.
and You will be :)
They don't even realize their mistakes.
They are so fake and pretentious.
They won't admit their mistakes.
They lied to me.
Their fault is unforgivable
So what do you do ?
You can't control yourself.
You are angry at them.
You are angry at yourself for not able to solve the problem.
What to do if I can't stop being angry ?
it's the same as :
What to do when I refuse to Let go ?
What to do when I refuse to Forget and Forgive ?
It's a choice.
You have to make a choice.
and It's totally your choice.
Do you want to stay angry ?
Do you want to be sick ?
Yes... anger and grudge and stress and sadness makes you SICK !!!
It's not a myth, it's a Reality.
It's also true that laughter and happiness and letting go and forgiveness HEALS !!
So the choice is up to you !!
It's entirely your decision to make.
They probably won't stop making their mistakes.
They probably will stay the bad guys forever.
But it's not your problem.
It's their problem.
What you need to do is to not allow them disturb you.
What happened is already in the past.
You are still angry for what happened in the past.
Live in the Now,
Let go, Forget, Forgive and Be sincerely Happy with your Present Life and Move towards your Future.
"But I'm not that guy who takes things lightly and forgets.
I'm not him who smiles at the person who has robbed him of everything."
You wanna know what the truth is ?
It's hard for him too !! But he chose to Let go, to Forgive and to Move on.
He chose to have a good happy Life.
It's the same choice for you.
and the Good News is , It's entirely your choice.
No one will take over and decide for you.
Choose to Let go,
Choose to be Healthy,
Choose to Forgive,
Choose to Move on.
Choose to be Happy.
and You will be :)
Sunday, June 28, 2009
What to do when I am angry
Life is short
it's that simple, that simple line just takes my anger away.
I was trying to find a decent radio channel,
and I happen to stop at this channel where the Radio guy was saying "Life is Short"
and it just hit me....
Life is really short.
My being angry is not going to make things any better.
Why should I be miserable over something that I can't even remember anymore.
My being angry at someone, doesn't make that someone a better or a worse person, it doesn't make that other person realize the errors, Hey... they don't even know and they don't even care what you're feeling, so why should you even bother feeling angry ???
Or they might feel really bad for offending you, but they just too proud to say sorry.
Whateverrr.....
Just Let it go....
Being angry is useless....
Yes it's their fault,
Yes you're the victim
Yes you're the nice guy
Yes they're the bad guy
Yes yes yes....
Just let it go...
seriously.... Let it go......
Forget about it
yes Right now !!
Get involved in something interesting
Go play basketball, Go swimming,
Go work, Go do a charity work, Go design something
Go walk the dog
Go out with friends.
Do something positive
You won't even remember what made you angry in the first place.
Coz really,
Life is short and you should make the most of it.
and the most important thing, You should Enjoy your Life !!
So Let it go, take a deep breath and Smile :)
Enjoy your Life right now !!
it's that simple, that simple line just takes my anger away.
I was trying to find a decent radio channel,
and I happen to stop at this channel where the Radio guy was saying "Life is Short"
and it just hit me....
Life is really short.
My being angry is not going to make things any better.
Why should I be miserable over something that I can't even remember anymore.
My being angry at someone, doesn't make that someone a better or a worse person, it doesn't make that other person realize the errors, Hey... they don't even know and they don't even care what you're feeling, so why should you even bother feeling angry ???
Or they might feel really bad for offending you, but they just too proud to say sorry.
Whateverrr.....
Just Let it go....
Being angry is useless....
Yes it's their fault,
Yes you're the victim
Yes you're the nice guy
Yes they're the bad guy
Yes yes yes....
Just let it go...
seriously.... Let it go......
Forget about it
yes Right now !!
Get involved in something interesting
Go play basketball, Go swimming,
Go work, Go do a charity work, Go design something
Go walk the dog
Go out with friends.
Do something positive
You won't even remember what made you angry in the first place.
Coz really,
Life is short and you should make the most of it.
and the most important thing, You should Enjoy your Life !!
So Let it go, take a deep breath and Smile :)
Enjoy your Life right now !!
What to do when you think you are not good enough
You work twice as hard.
You learn thrice as much.
You focus more.
When you think you are not good enough,
It should be the drive that pushes you forward.
When you think you are not good enough and you surrender and you give up.
Then you will never be good enough.
You should get off your couch and BE good enough, BE better, BE THE BEST !!
Don't let other people's talent scare you
Don't let other people tell you how high you can fly
You are good enough
You are the Best in what you dream to do.
You know it in your heart.
You feel it in your heart.
You have to want it, face your fears and work hard to achieve it.
And if you love what you do, it's not even considered working.
Everyone is good for something.
Everyone is super talented in something.
You've got to find out what it is and You've got to Focus to achieve it.
No more slacking, no more procastinating, It's Right Now !!
And what do you mean you're still not good enough ?
First you have to KNOW that you are Good Enough
Then Be Good enough !!
Try !! Learn !!! Focus !!! and Keep at it !!
Then before you know it,
You are the Best at what you do !!
We are all destined to do something meaningful in our Life.
We are all special !!
“ Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
Our Deepest Fear by Marianne Williamson
You learn thrice as much.
You focus more.
When you think you are not good enough,
It should be the drive that pushes you forward.
When you think you are not good enough and you surrender and you give up.
Then you will never be good enough.
You should get off your couch and BE good enough, BE better, BE THE BEST !!
Don't let other people's talent scare you
Don't let other people tell you how high you can fly
You are good enough
You are the Best in what you dream to do.
You know it in your heart.
You feel it in your heart.
You have to want it, face your fears and work hard to achieve it.
And if you love what you do, it's not even considered working.
Everyone is good for something.
Everyone is super talented in something.
You've got to find out what it is and You've got to Focus to achieve it.
No more slacking, no more procastinating, It's Right Now !!
And what do you mean you're still not good enough ?
First you have to KNOW that you are Good Enough
Then Be Good enough !!
Try !! Learn !!! Focus !!! and Keep at it !!
Then before you know it,
You are the Best at what you do !!
We are all destined to do something meaningful in our Life.
We are all special !!
“ Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
Our Deepest Fear by Marianne Williamson
Wonderful Quotes
" Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding "
Proverbs 3:5-6
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“ Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
Our Deepest Fear by Marianne Williamson
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" Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary. "
Steve Jobs
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" Never lose sight of the Bigger Picture "
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" Nothing is useless. Everything you do is something worth doing."
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Proverbs 3:5-6
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“ Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
Our Deepest Fear by Marianne Williamson
---------------
" Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary. "
Steve Jobs
---------------
" Never lose sight of the Bigger Picture "
---------------
" Nothing is useless. Everything you do is something worth doing."
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What to do when I start questioning myself
I'll re-assure myself that Everything I do is useful !!
or it will be useful for me in the Near Future.
"Never lose sight of the Bigger picture"
Sometimes you get so excited at an Idea
but you get so many obstacles along the way
So you start to question yourself
"Am I doing the right thing ?"
" What am I doing actually ?"
" What if I don't succeed ? "
"Am I wasting my time ?"
So you decided to stop in the very beginning.
Wrong...........
If you know that your idea is good, positive, powerful, wonderful, amazing, etc
Don't let other people and their judgment scare you.
If it seems impossible........ but you feel it inside you that you can do it.
Then Do it !!
Take a look at Mohammad Yunus and his Grameen Bank.
So he's lending money to the poor, impossible right ?
But he's succeeded and he's proven everyone wrong.
So stop questioning yourself for now
and Focus on making your Dream come true !!
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
Steve Jobs
or it will be useful for me in the Near Future.
"Never lose sight of the Bigger picture"
Sometimes you get so excited at an Idea
but you get so many obstacles along the way
So you start to question yourself
"Am I doing the right thing ?"
" What am I doing actually ?"
" What if I don't succeed ? "
"Am I wasting my time ?"
So you decided to stop in the very beginning.
Wrong...........
If you know that your idea is good, positive, powerful, wonderful, amazing, etc
Don't let other people and their judgment scare you.
If it seems impossible........ but you feel it inside you that you can do it.
Then Do it !!
Take a look at Mohammad Yunus and his Grameen Bank.
So he's lending money to the poor, impossible right ?
But he's succeeded and he's proven everyone wrong.
So stop questioning yourself for now
and Focus on making your Dream come true !!
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
Steve Jobs
What to do When I have ideas in my head
I will write them down Right Now !!
I will sketch-design them Right Now !!!
It happens a lot to me,
I'd have an idea to write or an idea of a design
then I'd be too lazy or too sleepy to write it down or to develop it.
and I'd think " Ohh.. I'll do it tomorrow or at night"
But what happens ?
Later......... you forgot about your ideas !!!
or if you don't forget, you get stuck......
You don't know what to do
You can't develop the idea
You have other things to do
So you end up not doing anything at all
Soooooooooooooo
whenever you have an idea
Write it down Right at that very Moment !!!
Develop it.... Do it Right Now !!
I will sketch-design them Right Now !!!
It happens a lot to me,
I'd have an idea to write or an idea of a design
then I'd be too lazy or too sleepy to write it down or to develop it.
and I'd think " Ohh.. I'll do it tomorrow or at night"
But what happens ?
Later......... you forgot about your ideas !!!
or if you don't forget, you get stuck......
You don't know what to do
You can't develop the idea
You have other things to do
So you end up not doing anything at all
Soooooooooooooo
whenever you have an idea
Write it down Right at that very Moment !!!
Develop it.... Do it Right Now !!
Saturday, June 27, 2009
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