What to do when I'm wasting time

Know this :
Time is Limited..........so stop wasting it
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You'll regret it if it's too late and there's nothing that u can do about it
So Start Now....
Live your Life, Achieve something, Be someone, Do something meaningful
It's in you.

Your parents are not getting any younger either
Make your parents proud !!!
Make them happy !
They deserve it.
Take them on a trip to Europe :)

Be a Good person
Grow in Love
You can't do this if you keep wasting your time
You've asked God for opportunities and more time
but you've been slacking and you haven't done anything at all
well... here's your chance to shine
You have to GET UP and START NOW
Achieve your dreams
it won't happen if you say "Later" or "in 5 minutes"

Start Now, start living your life
start now before it's too late
Make them proud !!

Everyone is equal !!

Know that we're all very flawed, we're not perfect
We're not superior than others, We're not any better
Treat others with respect no matter what

Strip yourself of your title, power, money, skin/beauty, son/daughter of
and you'll find that We are all Equal !!

and Everyone is GIFTED in something !
so stay humble, respect, and you might even learn something from them.

and Always be Grateful !!
always

What to do when I'm procrastinating my New Year's resolution ?

(aka what to do when I'm a lazy-ass-procrastinator all the time ?)

Yup... it's new year
the time for our New Years resolutions
the time for any resolutions
the time to "start"

but have you ? have we ? have I ?
No !!!
I just get so lazy and I keep on procrastinating

okay... quick recap

Last year...a dear family member passed away and I promised I'd "start"
(start working hard to achieve my dreams and make my parents proud, start being on time, start to stay "awake", just start on everything)
so I did start..... not full on though

A few months back, a 5 minute earthquake, maybe 7.2 richter scale
I said that I wasn't ready to die, so I'll "start"
but I still watch to much TV and still websurf just a tad bit too much

Every now and then, at night, I'd realize that I haven't accomplished much in life and I promise myself and ask Him to give me more time to live my life to the fullest
Every morning, I wake up rather late and yes.... I get lazy to start.
I still sit around too much doing things that are not very productive.

So now.... I'm not going to tell myself what to do when I'm procrastinating.
I'm going to act like a mother that's lose all hope towards her kid, but who still believes in her little girl and is still waiting until she changes into a better person.
""You've been given all the luxury and comfort in life, yet you choose to just sit around waiting for wonderful things to happen to you, you choose to procrastinate every single day. How are you not ashamed of yourself ? If you don't change, one day will come where you'll regret everything in life and it'll be too late"

Now....
The time is now, don't sit around until everything's taken away from you in a blink of an eye where you're left with absolutely nothing.
Live your life now.
Change requires a whole lot of hard work, patience, a strong will and motivation, determination, perseverance
and it can get lonely too, but you've had a whole life of easiness.
So now is the time to change, be discipline, be hard working, be succesful, be enthusiastic, be kind, be humble, be happy, be meaningful, be useful, be ready when the time comes.
Be someone that your parents and God can be proud of.
The choice is yours and I'm sure you'll make the right one :)

What to do when I "hate" my family

So you have a fight with your mum/dad or your sis/bro
You're so freakin annoyed, you feel like punching ur bro in the face.
You feel like exploding, You can't stand them anymore
You wanna move out of the house.
You don't wanna think of them as family anymore

But HEY !!
It will pass !! Trust me, it will.
Get a diversion, cool off, calm down
Do something positive, Exercise or Go take a walk, whatever
Before you know it, you forgot the reason you fought with them in the first place.
Before you even realize it, you start talking to them again and start laughing about everything again.
Just think about the warm fuzzy feeling you get when you spend good times with them, don't you wanna have that instead of feeling miserable ?
Think about how protected and safe you are when they got your back.
So why choose to feel miserable ?

There's no "I win" if you give them the silent treatment
There's no "I lose" if you start talking to them first.
You guys need each other, even though sometimes you don't admit it, You do need them.
They're Family
It's all that matters
You fight with them, you argue with them
but you'll always be there for each other no matter what
They'll always be there for you.

Here,
Just imagine if it's the end of the world.
You only have 10 minutes before everything comes to an end.
You know what....
You won't even think of all the annoying stuff that they did
You'll see only good things in them
You forgive all,
You'd wanna spend the last minutes with them.
You'll feel warm and light inside
You'll want more time to spend time with them

and Why wait till it's too late ?
You have them now right in front of you
It's your choice

What to do when I am upset

First of all
That feeling won't stay forever.
I know you're upset now, but just know you're not gonna feel upset or angry forever.
That's the first thing to remember.

Then, this is what works for me
I go to my room to cool off
Watch some good TV or a movie, comedy perhaps.
accompanied with some good food
(just don't make snacking as a solution for your problem)
Eat Fruits instead ;p
After 30 mins or so,
I'm all better.
Really, no matter how upset/angry I felt earlier, I'm now calm and happier.

Give it a few more hours and I start to think straight
and I see how unnecessary it was to be upset in the first place.
I learn if I could just let it go, I didn't have to feel upset at all.
I could just let go and move on and be happy.

What to do when I can't control my anger

I am so mad,
They don't even realize their mistakes.
They are so fake and pretentious.
They won't admit their mistakes.
They lied to me.
Their fault is unforgivable
So what do you do ?
You can't control yourself.
You are angry at them.
You are angry at yourself for not able to solve the problem.

What to do if I can't stop being angry ?
it's the same as :
What to do when I refuse to Let go ?
What to do when I refuse to Forget and Forgive ?

It's a choice.
You have to make a choice.
and It's totally your choice.

Do you want to stay angry ?
Do you want to be sick ?
Yes... anger and grudge and stress and sadness makes you SICK !!!
It's not a myth, it's a Reality.

It's also true that laughter and happiness and letting go and forgiveness HEALS !!
So the choice is up to you !!
It's entirely your decision to make.

They probably won't stop making their mistakes.
They probably will stay the bad guys forever.
But it's not your problem.
It's their problem.
What you need to do is to not allow them disturb you.
What happened is already in the past.
You are still angry for what happened in the past.
Live in the Now,
Let go, Forget, Forgive and Be sincerely Happy with your Present Life and Move towards your Future.

"But I'm not that guy who takes things lightly and forgets.
I'm not him who smiles at the person who has robbed him of everything."
You wanna know what the truth is ?
It's hard for him too !! But he chose to Let go, to Forgive and to Move on.
He chose to have a good happy Life.

It's the same choice for you.
and the Good News is , It's entirely your choice.
No one will take over and decide for you.
Choose to Let go,
Choose to be Healthy,
Choose to Forgive,
Choose to Move on.
Choose to be Happy.
and You will be :)

What to do when I am angry

Life is short
it's that simple, that simple line just takes my anger away.

I was trying to find a decent radio channel,
and I happen to stop at this channel where the Radio guy was saying "Life is Short"
and it just hit me....

Life is really short.
My being angry is not going to make things any better.
Why should I be miserable over something that I can't even remember anymore.
My being angry at someone, doesn't make that someone a better or a worse person, it doesn't make that other person realize the errors, Hey... they don't even know and they don't even care what you're feeling, so why should you even bother feeling angry ???
Or they might feel really bad for offending you, but they just too proud to say sorry.
Whateverrr.....
Just Let it go....
Being angry is useless....

Yes it's their fault,
Yes you're the victim
Yes you're the nice guy
Yes they're the bad guy
Yes yes yes....
Just let it go...
seriously.... Let it go......
Forget about it
yes Right now !!

Get involved in something interesting
Go play basketball, Go swimming,
Go work, Go do a charity work, Go design something
Go walk the dog
Go out with friends.
Do something positive
You won't even remember what made you angry in the first place.
Coz really,
Life is short and you should make the most of it.
and the most important thing, You should Enjoy your Life !!

So Let it go, take a deep breath and Smile :)
Enjoy your Life right now !!